Flashes

OK, I promised myself that I would not dwell on the affair, or allow myself to wallow in .... whatever .... until I move on and have some time and space separating me and all this baggage.

But things rarely go according to plan.

Flash back to the day Vinny told me what he did: He insinuated that it was just a thing, not something he planned, just happened, etc. Silly me, I assumed at the time that it happened only went he made his second trip to Canada close to Christmas.

Flash forward to a news article I saw today, entitled "Tiger's Thanksgiving Incident" or something like that. *click-click-click* Suddenly another fact surfaced: Vinny had also told me that he hated hearing about the whole Tiger Woods scandal because it was a constant, daily reminder of what he had done. And he made his first trip to Canada just before Thanksgiving.

So he did it more than once. I had wondered why he scheduled a second trip so quickly. Didn't think he wanted to see his dad again that bad.

I am just disgusted. Can't believe I didn't figure this out sooner.

Also, Sue told me today that she is showing her house to someone on Sunday. I had kinda been counting on the fact that it's such a dump that no one would make an offer. I hope I'm still right. I'd like to move approximately mid-summer, like July or August. I also realized that Jen may not be able to keep her house that long. Feels like I'm standing on marbles and they're starting to slide out from under me.